Thursday, April 10, 2008

Things We Do

I'm with my boyfriend now for just about 2 years I think. I think... You see, it wasn't official. He didn't ask me, "will you be my girlfriend" or anything like that. I didn't know when it happened, was it when he sent me home almost everyday? or when he kissed me on the lips. But I know that since we've felt like we were together, our relationship was full of ups and downs. He won't admit it but I cause most of the downs in our relationship. Not that I'm proud of it or anything, its fact. We fight and we have it out. Then we learn the lessons, keep the lessons and forget the incident. I think this is important so that we don't bring up the past and hold grudges.

We compromise. I like to dance but I will follow him to bars. I still have loads of fun though sometimes he can get a little loud when he is impressed with the guitarist's skill and all that.

The loveliest thing happened today. He asked me to teach him to roller blade. I was so excited then he asked me. He wanted to do something I liked. So I taught him. He is a fast learner. It was fun. Then had a beer and went cycling. Today was a good day. Excellent.

So what I've learned so far from my relationship. Patients, to listen, be more open to ideas, forgiveness. I might have missed a few, but the most obvious ones are listed.

I'm glad we're together. I love him so much.

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